This weeks lesson is about our association with others so I can not, NOT speak up about proposition 8. It is a troublesome time for many of our brothers and sisters. I can understand how they may feel 'we' are being non-tolerant of a lifestyle they feel is natural. That however, is not the whole truth. I feel quite the opposite. I am sensing from some a non-tolerance for my beliefs.
One of the basic principles, a foundation point of our beliefs, is that the family is an ETERNAL principle. With this belief proclaimed to the world (
see proclamation); and personally I have asked for myself if it is true and received my answer, it was only necessary that We stand up for the true ETERNAL nature of marriage. We see marriage as not only a bond between a woman and a man, but an ETERNAL commitment between a man, woman, and their Heavenly Father.
Although some may not understand this, or it is very difficult because either they themselves or a loved one is struggling with desires to be with someone of the same sex, it is still the truth as I see it. I live here too - meaning why shouldn't I speak up for my beliefs - freedom of speech, choice, and all the other great amendments of being an United States American apply to me too.
For those who feel the same as I do, but are struggling how to associate with others who disagree I recommend the principles taught in this weeks lesson:
1 - Be willing to reach out to others
2 - Do not criticize or judge others
3 - Pray for greater love
MORONI 7: 46-4846 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, if ye have not charity, ye are nothing, for charity never faileth. Wherefore, cleave unto charity, which is the greatest of all, for all things must fail—
47 But
acharity is the pure
blove of Christ, and it endureth
cforever; and whoso is found possessed of it at the last day, it shall be well with him.
48 Wherefore, my beloved brethren,
apray unto the Father with all the energy of heart, that ye may be filled with this love, which he hath bestowed upon all who are true
bfollowers of his Son, Jesus Christ; that ye may become the sons of God; that when he shall appear we shall
cbe like him, for we shall see him as he is; that we may have this hope; that we may be
dpurified even as he is pure. Amen.
Finally, my prayers are filled with hope, compassion, and a lot of humility. And although I am not a California resident - I have a deep love for those who live there, including those who choose a different lifestyle. I do not follow 'my church' blindly, I follow my faith, my heart, my understanding of what my Heavenly Father wants me to do.
All my love to those who read.
So this next weeks lesson is on being dependable and here I sit having missed last week's lesson. Mind you it was for a good reason (baby blessing) but none the less. As for ideas the resource guide give's the following talk from Elder Worthlin, Life's Lessons Learned. I actually read this a while ago for a FHE and found it very funny and filled with the spirit. It's great if you have girls who are into sports - the football story is a good one for this lesson. Helping the girls see the connection between dependablity and integrity will help them see how the lesson relates to their YW goals. I plan to have them do some comparing exercises with the two words - find the similarities in actions, thoughts, and words. A significant leader in the ward or community (bishop, high council, RS president, a parent or sybling in a leadership type job) would be good to have come and speak for a couple of minutes about what it means to them to have dependable committee members/employees. Please let me know if you have other ideas on this subject! Have a great lesson and love your girls to death.
